Dark Shadows & Vacant Parking Lots

The question I get asked the most when someone finds out I’ve been adopted:

When did you find out you were adopted?  Every day it seems like my Mum reminds me.  But I was told, even if I didn’t understand it, by my Mum.  She was always up front about it to me.  Sometimes to the point that it was a threat or something like that, a hidden vow of 'you will never be fully mine.'  Oxy helped calm me down and then that went away.